Candlelight and You

Be mad at me for saying this if you want but when we have a good thing, we ought to be grateful. I do not know the dynamics of your relationship but there's going to be problems and no ones relationship is perfect by far. Cheating by far is not tolerated in any relationship for any reason whatsoever. If you feel like the need to cheat, leave before you do. Don't hurt the relationship more than it already is. Cheating starts in the mind before you actually step out to physically do it. Don't.

Address the problem with your significant other and try to fulfill what's missing instead of filling it with someone else who will definitely be a problem, especially if you're in a monogamous relationship. Seek help, seek counsel if your relationship is worth saving and you're actually in love with them. Relationships go through dry spells when the honeymoon stage seems gone and bleak. You must find ways to spark that light that burns the fire of the love that you know is there.

Sometimes all you need is a restart or some more gas. Remember, they are someone whom you're trying to spend the rest of your life with. You have to use your imagination and be creative with them. Just because it's just the two of you now does not mean that you stop living. Go on a 'field trip', date, date, and date some more. Role play. There's so much that you both can do to get that bicycle up that steep hill. Just know that the harder you pedal, the more steady that you are, you're going to make it to the top of that hill.

Before we step out of the circle, we must ask ourselves a serious question, 'What is it that I'm looking for that I'm not getting now and can my man/woman and I repair what's missing'?